A FAMILY CAN LIVE IN HARMONY FOLLOWING THESE TIPS BELOW!
When two people fall in love and have courted for sometimes the next thing in their mind may be getting married and having children. Do you know there are many people living now
as husband and wife that are not supposed to? I believe living in peace and harmony with our spouses creates a healthy atmosphere for us to raise our Kids.
Hmm… very often we see many crises and tensions in the family. This happens when a couple fails to find out what God purpose for their family is. Too many times unprepared and ignorant people enter into marriage for the wrong reasons. Marriage is a place of honour,
where the man and the woman love and cherish each other above any other they may have come in contact with. But we see too many boys and girls enter into marriage just for amusement. How can such a people produce a happy and lovely family, a better atmosphere to raise their kids when they don't know the real purpose of marriage.
If you want to live in peace and harmony then commit more to your family. Marriage is for serious-minded people who are committing to making their family stay united in Love. Some men and women could honour any other except their spouse. How can there be peace and harmony in such family? What kind of Children are they raising in such an atmosphere?
Here are few tips to ways FAMILY can stay united in love.
The family is not meant for a place of fights and resentments, but it is like a paradise on earth. Someone close to me once said:…
“I love your family so much, I wish mine was like yours, oh! you don't know what I deal with in my family……”.
Everyone needs to make the decision for themselves and find out ways they can live in love, peace and harmony as a family. Every family has its own struggles and challenges.
Marriage itself is not a bed of roses. If you must marry then marry right. Marry a person with vision that knows what they want out of life.
I am married for close to 13 years and I know I don't want to always have the last say, win every argument, conquer the world and loose my precious family in the cause. God forbid! There are times to talk and times to keep shut up.
It is essential we understand God's divine standards of living and guidance for our family. We should learn how to handle issues in family wisely because when you lack joy and happiness in your home, it is difficult to get it somewhere else. You have to let go of your ego, your social status, and millions of pounds, euros or dollars that you have in your bank account don't actually matter.
If you always come home only to start a fight with your spouse and kids, then you will be living a miserable and unhappy lifestyle. Some people nurture a wonderful relationship with their colleagues at their place of work and at their social gathering.
But those people find it difficult appearing decent, honest, sincere and transparent in their family, such people are merely putting on a false facade.
Because your true character is what you are at home. “HONOUR IS TO BE GIVEN TO ANYONE WHO RULES HIS OWN HOUSE WELL, HAVING HIS CHILDREN IN SUBMISSION WITH ALL REVERENCE”.
- Learn to honour and respect your spouse above all others. If you don't practice this before start now.
- Don't see your spouse as a nonentity whose opinions and ideas doesn't count, learn to appreciate them even in that little thing they are good at.
- if you respect your family enough, then you shouldn't have a problem with doing the same to other people.
- Remember many families are in crises and marriages have been dissolved almost few weeks or months after the wedding.
- To avoid this from happening in high percentage let's get knowledge and apply them so.
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